|   Been home for 2 days and still haven't unpacked the bikes... | AS
Oct 4, 2001 4:32 PM | | Got home from San Francisco and realized I no longer love my girlfriend. It's been 4.5 years. 3 of which we've been living together.
Plan on telling her friday... plan on moving into my mom's saturday... plan on riding sunday.
this sucks |
| ahh man that sucks......~~~> | dhjunkie
Oct 4, 2001 6:20 PM | | man that must suck ass,, im sorry to hear the news,,, u should really get on ur bike sunday,, just ride,, ride all day non-stop,, it will prob make you feel a lot better, goodluck |
| its ok... | Atom
Oct 4, 2001 6:48 PM | | its better than having to see her everyday and realize you dont want to be with her. then youll get nasty and be a d!ck and prolly hurt her alot more in the end.
Get it over with, be done with it, and give it some time. Who knows maybe youll have a change of heart.
Whatever you do... DONT LET IT LINGER!! |
| May not be as bada as you think... | JesusFreak
Oct 4, 2001 8:18 PM | | Don't get too bummed, you are actually feeling perfectly normal for a husband/wife type relationship. In real life (versus the cinema), couples go through such 'stages' of feelings. Marriage is a deep relationship that takes a man/wife through quite a bit of unanticipated development.
I'm in it, and it's amazing how many times I would have quit if not for the vow and realization of God's view on marriage. In the long run, it has turned out to be quite a forged gem.
BTW, marriage is a vow for just that reason. That vow is the passage to God's approval for such a relationship.
More to life than meets the eye! |
| I see why they call you JesusFreak.... | AS
Oct 5, 2001 6:43 AM | | Thanks bro. I really do appreciate your words. I could never see myself living up to those vows with this girl. That is why I must move on. |
| Pour yourself some Merlot... | Optikal
Oct 4, 2001 9:01 PM | | ...and just chill out by yourself for a while.
Everything works out in the end...gotta keep that in mind.
Don't let it linger, get it over with and start a new stage in your life.
.:Optikal Out:. |
| Calif. will do that to ya! | spookydave
Oct 5, 2001 5:38 AM | | I moved to So Calif. and my gf was to come out later. I ended up calling her and told her it would be best not to. That was in 1985 and I'm still here! |
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